Showing posts with label student speaks. Show all posts
Showing posts with label student speaks. Show all posts

Monday, May 17, 2010

Did we put Emma up to speaking? Was she telling the truth?

Albert Einstein said, "The aim (of education) must be the training of independently acting and thinking individuals who, however, can see in the service to the community their highest life achievement."

Paul and I are very proud of Emma for speaking at the Board of Education meeting on May 12, 2010.  

Emma wrote her own remarks, speaking her own mind - and from the start, she wanted to make a difference by participating at the Board of Education meeting.  There she stood, not yet even 12 years old, a critical thinker speaking up for what she believes in a room full of adults; not a peer in sight.  If we aren't educating children for that very act, then what -- truly-- is the point?

According to those present, there was confusion about Emma's statements.  It may have been suggested her remarks bore no merit because 6th grade does not use a ticket/token/reward/incentive program when in fact, class rewards are most definitely used in 6th grade gym, music and art. 

In addition, Emma was speaking about her experience in general with the ticket/reward program that was in place in her grade 5 class as well as the school-wide ticket program put in place sometime during her 4th or 5th grade year at BCS.  Children were "caught being good," given tickets, and then names were drawn to win prizes.  She talked about how that made her feel.

Of particular note: Emma was also speaking about the truly positive learning environments she has experienced at BCS in 4th grade and 6th grade.  And, that's the real kicker... 

She so astutely has observed that the classes she has had with the least or no rewards, were the best environments.  She clearly sees that when students work together, have a teacher who takes the time to get to know them and provides opportunities for interesting, engaging learning, and choice -- the behavior problems either do not exist or are minor enough in nature that a skilled teacher can use humor to redirect a misbehaving student. 

In choosing to get hung up on whether or not Emma's statement was accurate, it appears the wisdom she spoke was lost on this group of adults charged with educating our children.  

Emma stood up with the intention of making a difference for the younger students she'll leave behind as she graduates to Amity Middle School.  She spoke her truth, which happened to also be THE TRUTH.  You can read her remarks here.  I think Einstein would have been proud too.

Friday, May 14, 2010

A student voice at the Board of Education Meeting on May 12, 2010

A student speaks at the Board of Education meeting on May 12, 2010:

My name is Emma Bogush and I am in 6th grade. I know I will be leaving (for middle school) but I’m doing this for the good of the kids younger than me.  Thank you for letting me speak to you tonight.
I think the reward system that is part of PBIS is terrible.  We need to get rid of the ticket and reward systems.
Tickets and rewards are often given to a child who usually behaves badly and suddenly behaves well.  It makes the kids who always or mostly behave well feel bad.
When tickets were given out all over school and then you could win prizes, everyone except the kid who won the prize felt terrible.
When rewards and tickets are given out to the whole class it causes problems.   It causes problems because when you are very close to getting the prize and one kid does something (even a minor something) the teacher will take away your chance even if all the other kids are behaving.  This makes enemies kid to kid and kid to teacher.  And it makes you feel bad about yourself because it makes you start to think you did something bad because the teacher took away the prize.
Instead of tickets and rewards, have teachers talk to kids.  The classes I have with the least amount of rewards have the best behavior.  The teacher gets to know kids and knows their needs.  In classes with interaction, choice, and teachers who are ready to help there are less problems.  Teachers can also use humor to help kids behave. 
Kids behave and help others because it feels good and it helps people.  I behave and help others because it feels good and it helps people.  Giving rewards for this makes it all confusing.
Please cancel this program.  Thank you. 

Other voices from the meeting:
Aimee Bogush
Valerie Knight-DiGangi
Paul Bogush
Brian Laubstein